Nonverbal Communication in Writing Centers
Melissa Maxwell
Nonverbal communication may be the most important part of communicating in a writing center. People communicate using posture, facial expression, and behavior without saying a word. Many people base expectations on these nonverbal cues that affect the outcome of a tutoring session. When a tutor takes control of the messages he or she sends out, it increases the success of a session. Tutees also send messages through nonverbal communication, and tutors should use nonverbal communication as a tool to cater to a tutees needs. Body language can also affect a tutee when it comes from a tutor. In a way, Writing Fellows are selling their writing center. If they do not take extra effort to send out positive messages to students, these students are more likely to have a negative experience and may never return. Body language is everywhere in writing centers, and tutors should change their own behaviors to create a positive learning atmosphere.
There are a variety of ways to communicate non-verbally. Posture, facial expression, and overall behavior contribute to messages students send each other. Dennis Coon, a psychologist, says facial and body gestures
speak a language all their own and add to what a person says (459). Bad posture, such as slouching, is usually a sign of disinterest. If someone taps his or her foot on the floor, it often shows restlessness or boredom. However, not all signs of nonverbal communication are negative. Smiling conveys happiness and lightens the mood. Likewise, nodding while someone is talking suggests that a listener is truly listening. Sitting upright and facing the person spoken to sends a more positive message than slouching and facing away from the person. Even when someones words say one thing, his or her actions may say another. For example, if I watch a friend open a gift and he makes a face, even if he says that the gift is wonderful, the face he makes has a stronger impression. This also applies in a writing center. Either person can see when the other has a negative attitude. It is important that tutors remember they are sending messages, and they should try to send positive messages rather than negative ones.
Positive body language can increase the success of a session. Since students who come to the MCCC Writing Center are usually nervous, Writing Fellows should make an effort to sustain positive body language. Eye contact, accompanied by a smile gives
the impression the speaker is happy to be there (Chaney, l. 17). It is important that tutees know tutors are happy to help. In the session I mentioned earlier, the tutee was very nervous. By making her feel welcome and making sure I listened actively, I eased her nervousness. Once I had welcomed her, she calmed down and we were able to focus on the session. The confidence she gained as I listened to her and nodded in agreement helped her have faith in both her ability and her paper. When a tutee sees that the tutor is interested, he or she is more likely to hold interest as well. For example, when a professor is droning on or shuffling through papers, it is easy to lose interest, but when that same professor is interested in his or her own lecture, its much easier to stay involved. If a tutor sees a tutee that is not interested, he or she should try to make the session more exciting. In the beginning, a tutor can try to get the student to focus on his or her paper. During the session, the tutor might ask the tutee questions to keep him or her involved. If the tutor senses a tutee losing interest, the tutor could ask tutee where she thinks she needs the most help in writing her paper. By focusing on what she thinks is important, the tutor gives control back to the tutee and engages her.
When someone interprets body language, he or she creates a self-fulfilling prophecy. When someone expects a certain outcome, his or her behavior changes to create that outcome. The author of Great Expectations, Great Results maintains that, beliefs play a significant role in boosting performance (Connellan 155). If a tutor assumes a session is going to be unfocused because the tutee seems fidgety, it is likely that it will be unsuccessful. In the same way both parties use nonverbal communication, both tutors and tutees are capable of self-fulfilling prophecies. Because of this, it is important that tutors maintain positive nonverbal behavior, such as good posture, smiling, and active listening. The tutee will see this positive behavior and expect a successful session. If a student comes into a writing center and sees a tutor frowning or sighing, he or she will assume that the tutor has no desire to be involved in the session and will not be helpful. While tutors cannot expect tutees to purposely exhibit these positive nonverbal cues, they can check their own behavior to be sure that they send positive messages.
Noticing a tutees non-verbal communication can help a tutor create a better atmosphere. Anyone working in a writing center has encountered a student who was uninvolved, bored, or anxious to leave. It is important to notice these clues so tutors can try to gain the students interest. If a tutee begins a session checking his or her watch every two minutes while slouching, the tutor should make the session more interesting. By using nonverbal communication skills, tutors can create a more positive atmosphere in the writing center. However, sometimes students are interested, but they are simply nervous. A shaky tone of voice and fidgeting are both signs of nervousness. When seeing these in the writing center, tutors should try to calm the tutee by being friendly. Tutors can try to have a friendly conversation, ask about the direction the tutee took in writing the paper, or anything that will help ease into the session. Another technique to help put these students at ease are I statements. For example, Sometimes your topic sentences dont match the rest of the paragraph. I have trouble with that, too. Heres what I do when Im finished to check to make sure everything matches. Telling tutees that tutors have the same problems will help tutees feel less insecure about their own writing. They feel that if a Writing Fellow has the same problems, it must be okay to make mistakes, as long as they are corrected.
Nonverbal communication can come from the tutor and affect the tutee. When students first come into the writing center, they are not sure what to expect. If a tutor always greets students with a smile and pays genuine attention to them, they are likely to be at ease throughout the session. One particular student I tutored seemed very nervous. She was very friendly and arrived early, sitting in the waiting area and shuffling papers around in her backpack when I approached her. She seemed interested, but very nervous. When I introduced myself, I smiled and invited her to the table. She started telling me about the assignment and I stopped writing on the report form to look at her. She had to write an argumentative speech arguing against her beliefs and was worried that her arguments were weak. I began to think that was the reason she was so nervous about the assignment. The rest of the session went well; after I had genuinely listened to her, she seemed a lot less worried about the assignment. When she saw that I agreed with her about the difficulty supporting an opposing viewpoint, she felt more confident about the assignment. I identified the problem as something I personally had trouble with, and she felt less insecure about her writing. Nonverbal communication can affect a session in other ways. If I had been staring at the clock, tapping my pencil, or sighing, she would have thought I was bored and did not care about helping her. She would not have left the Writing Center as a better writer, but as a frustrated tutee with a bad impression of the Writing Center.
Nonverbal communication affects both tutors and tutees in the writing center. Facial expression, body language and behavior all contribute to the positive or negative messages students send each other. These nonverbal cues change both tutee and tutor expectations of a session. This creates a self-fulfilling prophecy, which can have either a positive or a negative impact on the success of a session. If either party is showing disinterest, the other is likely to have low expectations that will come true. Likewise, if the tutor or the tutee has positive behavior, it is likely the session will be a better learning experience. By taking control and sending positive messages to tutees, tutors can increase the quality of their sessions. Furthermore, tutees send cues that tutors can also use to improve sessions. They can watch tutee behavior and understand what it means. For example, if a student seems disinterested, the tutor must pique the tutees interest. Tutors also send out cues that tutees can interpret, so it is important that tutors are careful not to send negative messages. In any writing center, it is important that tutors make tutees feel welcome. One negative experience and a student may never return.
Works Cited
Chaney, Lillian H. and Catherine G. Green. Presenter Behaviors: Actions Speak Louder than Words. Supervision. 63.5
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Connellan, Thomas K. Great Expectations, Great Results HR Magazine. June 2003:155-160.
Coon, Dennis. Introduction to Psychology: Gateways to Mind and Behavior.10th ed. Belmont, CA: Wadsworth, 2004.
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